Interesting Blog to read - warning there may be some feminist leanings here

OK after lots of soul searching I have come to a startling realization - I have both bad luck and bad taste when it comes to men.  So in a tongue and cheek mood I decided to google

"How To Tell if a Guy is a Jerk"

and came across the following site How to tell if a guy is a jerk blog and it really was much more serious than I had intended - but it does make for interesting reading.

Still not completely sure that I want to get involved with a guy yet - lots of vacillation on this one.  Not that I am thinking of switching sides, just not sure that I am ready to leave my comfy solitude either.

But as my friends remind me the dating clock is ticking, 40 is staring me down lol - I really don't think that matters either.  I am married and divorced and already have my kids.  The old maid sobriquet will not ever apply.  So if I do date again, what would really be great is a jerk detector.  Do you hate most of the rest of society, are you a habitual liar, are you so self absorbed that everyone else is a victim to you, etc etc etc.  I am really looking to move up the food chain from a jerk to maybe a "slight ass"  - I am not looking for the perfect guy.  I am not looking to get married or to move in or to share too much of my life.  Just more a buddy that I have a great time with and common interest who likes himself and his space and we just overlap from time to time.  I know they say you have to kiss lots of frogs to find a prince, I am not even looking for the prince - a peasant would be fine lol.  Just not the jerk.  Ooooh does a jerk rate lower than a frog?  I think it might.